Two Extreme

Timestamp: 17th June 2019 Evening.

I was at office canteen waiting to order a tea.

The person working there is north Indian from Bihar (age 20-21) but he doesn’t seem like one. He looks like Tamilian but he only knows Hindi and Very little English and Tamil words.

1 month before I try to talk to him but he doesn’t reply to my common talk and avoiding eye contact.

I thought ‘what an arrogant behaviour’ and after 1 min I was speaking to him
‘hey bhaiya thum nahi tamil ore English malum’?(hey brother did you doesn’t know Tamil or English?)With my very little Hindi knowledge.

He looks at me and said “aah ji”(yes) and he started to speak in Hindi. I didn’t understand a single word. I said, “okay okay cool cu bhaiya”.

Whenever I see him I just say ‘hey bhaiya’ and ask him ‘khaana khaaya’ and
I say ‘bye’.

But today I was standing at the canteen and I saw another customer ordered Maggie with cheese.

let’s call him Mr.NaiveBB(Naive bodybuilder).

This bhaiya prepared and gave it to him.

Mr.NaiveBB asked for a fork spoon. He replied ‘haan nahe sir and give the Maggie bow to him with a normal spoon’.

NaiveBB is in high temper and started to shout at him in front of all ‘I don’t need this Maggie, keep it yourself. Call me when you have the fork spoon’.

bhaiya manage to understand what Mr.NaiveBB and told ‘No spoon sir’

Mr.NaiveBB scolded him again and went off.

bhaiya face become red hot and filled with embarrassment.

I am observing this incident I don’t know what to tell mistake is on both sides.

Mr.NaiveBB

His age maybe around 21-22, Muscular body but I well know this body is raised within 3-6 month.

I look at him and noticed what he is doing.

he sits beside with his female friend with one chair gap in between them.

Then now I understood aah this is the root cause!!!.

Point #1

Okay, I will tell you how I know he is naive in bodybuilding.

Nowadays GYM space contains highly mechanical equipment which gives you result so soon when you have a chubby body.

When 21-22 years old Men see this result so soon when he looks at his body in the mirror with T-shirt or shirt. his mind automatically think strong and powerful and curious to engage in a fight at any situation and also he will become arrogant and rude in behaviour .because his body will become V-shape and bulky appearance. they won’t get six-pack yet but when they wear a t-shirt or shirt it will look like one.

How do I know?

3 years before for 1 year, I went to GYM and within 6 months my body becomes a broad and bulky beast.

In that time I was in the same unstable mentality.

Point #2

he was fresher and he also with his female friend

The situation maybe she asked him a fork to eat maggie that is why he got angry when he didn’t find one. (Common emotion for boys)

For 5min I stand there what to do. I look at bhaiya he was so low with embarrassment. I know him very well he is a good person but he doesn’t know how to project his attitude and language problem one of the main reason.

I have a bit of confusion and little fear.

I talk to myself ” Do I need this? I have a lot of problems on my stack and Why should I need to solve this? Walk away or engage?”

But my instinct WON

I decided to solve this problem!!!

So I went to that Mr.NaiveBB he was sitting with his female friend.

I: hey bro you now Tamil?’

Mr.NaiveBB: yes.

I: Unnga Kita pesanum konjam vanga, please. (I need to talk to you could you please come?)

My appearance is uncut hair and untouched caveman beard, sleepless eyes and dead look. Made him think as I came for a duel

He came 10 meters away from there.

He is in full engagement mode…

Ready to fight…

Avoiding eye contact…

looking at his mobile…

My mindset: thevai ilama sandai varapuguthu(useless fight going start!) Cool! confident Prabhu you going to solve this problem

I: Bro, about that problem with shop worker. I well know about that person.he is from north India and he only knows a little bit English and Tamil. he didn’t understand what you spoke. even though he manages to tell you they don’t have fork spoon.

I spoke to him he told ‘they really don’t use fork spoon they only use a normal spoon.’

Mr.NaiveBB:(look at me and place the hand on his forehead. I feel he realized his mistake)

He went to bhaiya tapped his shoulder warmly and asked sorry from his heart

Lesson learnt

No one is a bad person depend on situation everything changes.
We should need to aware of our power and where to use it!.
More you experience the different situation you able to see problems from a different perspective.

In my tales, I was in both situation of Devouring Shame and Immense Power

Reality is more different when I see this issue in both points of view This Problem caused because of emotions

~DarkEnergy

Thank you for reading
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